Keep On Moving Forward

I know I'm not much of a friendly person who can give you advice on anything, but I guess little things do count. If you have time to read my seemingly pointless but helpful thoughts, I'm saying thank you in advance. These quotes from movies are often the words that we give when we're letting go of someone or something like that.



I know, we can't say this in real life but the line: Don't let me, I know we always wanted to answer like that but we can't. Why? Because we keep on holding on.



Well, I know this is not a break up line or something that shatters our heart into pieces, but this is a promise from the movie The Vow. I hope every man can fulfill this promise.



Anyway, I know that we ladies are tired to hear this words. They'll say "You are my life now" but then leaves you afterwards. Men are very indecisive. Remember that. They can't keep their promises. But of course, not all of them are like that. I'm just saying that MOST of them, they keep on changing their decisions, perspective and outlook.



This is often said in the state of moving on. Yes, you're already moving on but you will never forget him especially the memories. Why? Because he became your world that's why it is getting hard for you to let go. But no matter how hard it is, if it is over, it's over. Don't hurt yourself because you know that he'll never come back and that you just have to find a way to forget him. Get it?



Yes, we still love the person even on the day that you lose them. Well, if you're the one who break up with him because you are tired of his attitudes, well, you didn't lose him. You let go. So it's not that hard to move on. But if he's the one who broke up with you, then you lost him. You lose your world. Because he let go when you're still holding on. That's the difference between letting go and losing him.



My favorite quote from Taylor Swift ♥ We all deserve to love and be loved, not fall in love. Because everything that falls, gets broken, according to Taylor. That's true. It's the same as don't give everything for someone or else, you might fall and in the end, you'll get broken.



This should be the saying all couples should base their relationships. Just be strong and hold on even when you feel like letting go, because you believe that God works on your life and something good will happen out of it.



Don't look for the perfect person because love is not about finding the perfect person, it's about loving an imperfect person, perfectly. No one is perfect. Only God is. You'll never find a perfect guy, because they don't exist or if they do, they exist in fairy tales. If he is the one who is destined for you, remember, he should also look for you. So when the day comes when the two of you met together and said in unison, "finally I found you!", that's the day that you already found the one who will love you just the same as you love him and unconditionally.



Either it is a guy or a girl, never apologize for saying what you really feel. Besides, you're just being real. Don't apologize just because he/she got mad. If the reaction is like that, stop that feeling of yours. You don't deserve someone who don't accept your feelings.



This line is for all those who got the second chances. Remember, if you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours. But if it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with. But not all second chances mean they already realize their love for you. As I said, men are indecisive. And not all people deserve to have second chances.



Yes, some girls believe that they can change the guy and they might turn out to be different. You know, think before you act or else you might regret everything. If from the beginning you already knew that he's not the right man for you, then don't insist. You'll just receive unnecessary pain. 



This line describes our feelings. He will never understand, and you can't explain. It's just hard to make out the words. It's overflowing and words are not enough. But if you soared high, you'll also fall hard. Balance everything and don't give too much because that too much can hurt you.



But always remember, GOD IS IN CONTROL. He plans your everyday life and you don't need to worry. God is good. He has a right man for you. You just have to have faith in God and let him control your life. Don't let your emotions drive your life. If you feel like unloved, just remember that God loves all His children, and you're one of them! Trust in His plans. All you have to do is to give all your best and let God do the rest. Keep on moving forward and keep praying. It works all the time!